In 2012 we hit a time what I like to call the stripper movement with music especially glorifying strippers. Also it was a twerk movement in the earlier part of the year. Appealing to the eye without a doubt but what does it truly do for you. In my opinion nothing at all reason being people or more inclined to have sex more with their eyes more than their bodies.
My main example is a stripper/twerker, yea it looks great but it’s actually tricking your senses. Overcoming with the movement of a woman a man who isn’t as strong mentally will “bust faster” because of the sight rather than the feeling. If you were to be blindfolded and couldn’t see the gyrations of a woman during sex you’d most likely last longer. I’m basically saying it tricks you.
In the case of MOST women size is everything.. But what happens when you encounter that one person that you have sex with because he’s HUGE…but in all honesty stroke isn’t worth anything. I’ve actually known many women that says size matters until they meet that guy that may be a tad bit smaller but better and way more flexible. In some cases pain may be pleasure but in majority situations if you’re better than you just are better.
It’s brought to me that many people try to learn new things from watching porn. I am a porn lover but I havent learned anything and I feel that I can’t. If you ever notice 90% of the porn you watch is predictable. It will start out with oral here oral there missionary doggystyle then a cum shot. How can you learn from that? and you certainly can’t feel it. Once again you can be fooled with your eyes.
The previous statements were only to say this. I don’t believe in the term freaks I feel everyone has their own limitations on the things they are willing to do. Some people love anal, some people don’t do oral (hard to believe) and others don’t feel as if they’re inclined to try new things.
I strongly encourage that in 2013 we not lie to each other and say what’s good if you’re not completely satisfied, the lies ran so wild that people who have mediocre sex feel they’re on a pedestal. Just because it looks good doesn’t mean in is good. Try blindfolding yourself and letting a person have your way and see is the feeling still the same. Also try numerous positions and buy books on sex because knowledge is the key to EVERYTHING.
Sex it up in 2013..Be safe….Wrap it up
You made me aware of sumthn tht I nvr really paid attn to. We r definitely stimulated by the visual parts of having sex. I guess thts y we watch porn n the first place. Being blindfolded would definitely heighten the physical sensation of just being touched. I think. I’ll be a little more open minded tonight.
Blindfolding can be fun, me personally I’m just big on the actual instead of the factual. People are naturally intrigued by what they see…bodies especially. So when you actually get it you tend to say it’s great when really not. But anywho enjoy